aka. I'm not your F#$%ing Sweetie!
Location: My House
Mood: Contemplative and Amused
I just don't know where I meet them. And I really have no freakin clue as to what I'm doing wrong! What kind of F#$%ed up signals am I giving out? The Lord only knows.
So this moron calls me up last week...shame I shouldn't say moron...ok misguided person...(bear in mind that I have NEVER even met this bloke or even spoken to him before)...and we start chatting. The first five minutes was cool...then the dreaded "S" word crops up in the convo. Yeah most guys use it today and maybe I'm just old fashioned but I just don’t get guys who think that knowing you exist for 5 minutes qualifies and entitles them to call you “sweetie”....so seriously, like WTF? It’s tantamount to walking up to a strange female geriatric and proclaiming “Grandma”.
To make matters worse...my misguided friend took a liking to me in the most disturbing manner. Nothing, I repeat NOTHING warrants this message:
"As from today, you are my best friend ever and I want to thank you for that and dont worry I wont let you get away that easily sweetie" - Day 3 BTW
Ok, seriously like WTF? I would like to know how does this line attract women...and which women are attracted by this? Because I am certainly NOT attracted AT ALL!! The guy comes across as needy and clingy and desperate...geez, I'm not a materialistic person...things like money and looks dont impress me and even if there was the slightest chance, after the first offensive "sweetie", there wouldn't be a chance in HELL after this message.
Whatever made men believe that a real woman enjoys this offensive take on the vernacular and whatever happened to the concept of the Gentleman? Its easy to blame it all on women’s liberation and feminism…but it still does not warrant impertinence and provocative statements.
So what do I do to deserve these unwarranted over-familial gestures? It’s not like I’m sitting here begging to be violated by some idiot who can’t get his prose right. It would be easy to say that some men are just predators looking for their next victims…the proverbial wolf hunting for the sheep that’s going to be his next supper. And all the wanna-be women who are so desperate and man-hungry just fall all over these morons which encourages them further and perpetuates this repulsive cycle.
The truth is, it is becoming more prevalent and socially acceptable to use the "darling's", "sweetie's" and "baby's". But I'm sorry...not for me...at least have the decency to get to know me for like a month or two or three.
So what do REAL women want? How about a MAN...Lets start with that...I like my men fiesty...real...honest...true to who they are. I DON'T want a man who's going to be a little pansy by moulding his character and being who he THINKS I want him to be...and tell me everything he THINKS I want to hear...Grow some beads man!
Life is essentially about these four things:
And most of all there is NOTHING like a guy with manners…it’s a huge turn-on…enough to make a girl want to say “gimme more”…